Putting your partner first can feel like love, but when it consistently leaves you tired or unhappy, it stops being healthy and becomes a pattern of self-neglect. This question measures whether caring for your partner has quietly become more important than caring for yourself.

Agreeing to things you do not want to do is a common sign of weak boundaries in a relationship. When your default answer is yes, even when it goes against your own wishes, you may be putting your partner ahead of yourself. This question looks at whether you agree out of obligation rather than genuine choice.

A strong need for your partner's approval can drive codependent behavior, because your sense of safety starts to depend on how they see you. This question measures how much of your energy goes into managing your partner's opinion of you.

Avoiding conflict by staying silent can feel like keeping the peace, but it often means swallowing your own feelings and needs. This question explores whether you sacrifice your voice to avoid upsetting your partner.

Codependency often involves taking on responsibility for things that are not actually yours to carry, like your partner's emotions or choices. This question measures whether you feel accountable for problems that belong to your partner.

When feeling important depends on your partner relying on you, it becomes hard to exist without that caretaking role. This question looks at whether your value is tied to being needed by your partner, rather than standing on its own.

Codependent relationships often involve slowly losing track of what you yourself want, because your partner's preferences take over. This question measures how much of your own identity gets absorbed into the relationship.

The urge to fix your partner is a common codependent pattern, rooted in the belief that you can manage their life better than they can. This question explores whether you step in to solve problems that are not yours to solve.

Feeling restless or empty without your partner to care for suggests your sense of purpose depends on caretaking them. This question measures how uncomfortable you feel when there is no one to focus on besides yourself.

Staying with a partner who makes you unhappy out of fear of the pain of leaving is a serious signal that boundaries have broken down. This question looks at whether you prioritize the relationship over your own wellbeing.

Codependent people often struggle to name their own needs, let alone ask their partner to meet them. This question measures how comfortable you are expressing what you want, rather than always deferring to your partner.

Resentment is a common sign that your giving has become unbalanced, because you are over-delivering while your own needs go unmet. This question looks at whether generosity toward your partner has turned into quiet bitterness.